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Wedding day timeline for a 4 PM ceremony

A 4 PM ceremony is the classic shape of a wedding day: getting ready from 9:30 AM, portraits in the afternoon, dinner in the evening and dancing until about 12:15 AM. This is Bridewell's suggested day with the ceremony at 4 PM.

By Bridewell · Updated Nov 4, 2026

The day, hour by hour

TimeWhat happensHow long
9:30 AMHair & makeup begins2 h
11:30 AMPhotographer arrives1 h
12:30 PMGetting ready photos1 h
2:00 PMFirst look30 min
2:30 PMWedding party photos1 h
4:00 PMCeremony45 min
5:00 PMCocktail hour1 h
6:00 PMGrand entrance15 min
6:30 PMDinner served1 h 15 min
7:45 PMToasts30 min
8:15 PMFirst dance15 min
9:00 PMCake cutting15 min
9:15 PMDancing & celebration2 h 45 min
12:00 AMGrand exit15 min

Change the ceremony time in the free wedding day timeline and the whole day moves with it.

Why 4 PM works for so many weddings

  • A calm morning, and time for a first look and wedding-party photos before the ceremony.
  • Dinner at a normal dinner time, so speeches and the first dance land in the evening.
  • A full evening of dancing without a very late finish for most guests.

Make it work

  • Ask your photographer when the light is softest on your date: in summer it often falls during the cocktail hour or dinner, so plan a short portrait break.
  • Keep the cocktail hour to an hour: long enough for family photos, short enough that guests are still hungry, not hangry.
  • Put the toasts before or between courses so the kitchen and the speakers both keep to time.
  • Check the venue's closing time: dancing until 12:15 AM needs a late licence in many places.

Questions, answered

How long is a wedding reception after a 4 PM ceremony?

In this plan, about seven hours: the cocktail hour from 5 PM, dinner from 6:30 PM and dancing until the grand exit around 12:15 AM.

Should we do a first look with a 4 PM ceremony?

It helps: with the couple and wedding-party photos done before the ceremony, you can join the cocktail hour instead of missing it.

Share the plan for the day

Your timeline in Bridewell is shared with your partner and planner; mark events for guests and they appear on the RSVP page.

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